Why we can't change

If we appreciate that everything is happening to us, the bad , the good, the misfortune and the life changing we could be happier.

I know , I know, it is very difficult to approve and make a change because we still believe in a reality that we ourselves we have constructed and it is impossible to change your mind first.

That’s why we can’t change. To change something, you must understand that something is wrong that something makes you unhappy.

At the moment you understand what makes you feel unhappy and stuck you must change it immediately.

It Is understandable that this process is very stressful and arduous but at least you just have to make your effort.

We usually accept and we focus on changes that happening to us but rare we make a change that we decide ourselves and how we are going to adapt or cope with something new and we initiate that change.

Accept the change as natural part of life, as a better development, don’t stay without paths forward. I know very well that to change something is hard but hard is also to stay unhappy and stationary.

I would say we have to decide ourselves for the change and not become instrument of the situations and of our change.

The way of any change has stages that we have to support them as best we can to be an effective change.

We always dream in our life to be rich , famous, married with children , to own business but have you ask yourself all these people that have all these things how succeeded? They didn’t scared about the new. They understood that the way forward is hard and painful, they tried to reform themselves by leaving the inactivity and staying focus on their dream.

Don’t be afraid the change and your dream unfold in front of you.